Making Your Guy CRY In Your Arms

Yeap yeap yeap....As a lady I know one of the moments you'll probably dread most is when your guy is going through depression. It's annoying and at that point [for some reason], everything you do for him seems to irritate him and put him on the edge, and if you are not careful, you begin to feel lost and undervalued...then you give up after lingering chase to get your guy back.

Here is a fact you need to know....

At one point or another, a man will experience a high level of depression (at least 3 times a year) and at those points, I can boldly tell you that he needs his woman beside him and [probably wants to be cared for and treated like a baby]but often times, he looks the exact opposite of what he wants which is very tricky and sends the women that loves us off guard.

i am speaking as a man, and i understand our psychology, so here's the help you need.

1)Because of how we are shaped, we find it very to ask for help, especially from our lovers, except in extreme cases. Call it pride, call it ego...call it whatever, it's our make up and we have no apology for that, and until we find a solution, we tend to withdraw from our environment and the people around us and be ALONE. However, at this point, once you start sensing that we are drifting away from you (will discuss signs of drifting away in other articles), the best thing to do is to allow us go and probably say words like "You know I love you and I'll always be here for you" [with a little kiss on the forehead - don't do more than that, and make sure you smell extremely nice when you do this...use your most expensive perfume]. Chances are he will request for an "encore" after doing this the third time (one per day)

2)DO NOT buy him gifts during these times, and try as much as possible to reduce your call rate (odd right?) I know you love him, but trust me, this will help so much - he will be the one to call you and talk it out.

3)Don't procure solutions when he's talking and please try as much as possible to understand every statement he makes. If you don't understand very well, don't ever EVER EVER procure a solution, it's better to ask him (in the nicest of ways) to repeat himself, than for you to give him a nasty solution.

4)If for any reason he gets argumentative, don't talk, find a way into his arms and give him a kiss of life...then repeat steps 1 and 2 again...



we will talk about this again some more in my next post.