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Making Your Guy CRY In Your Arms

Yeap yeap yeap....As a lady I know one of the moments you'll probably dread most is when your guy is going through depression. It's annoying and at that point [for some reason], everything you do for him seems to irritate him and put him on the edge, and if you are not careful, you begin to feel lost and undervalued...then you give up after lingering chase to get your guy back.

Here is a fact you need to know....

At one point or another, a man will experience a high level of depression (at least 3 times a year) and at those points, I can boldly tell you that he needs his woman beside him and [probably wants to be cared for and treated like a baby]but often times, he looks the exact opposite of what he wants which is very tricky and sends the women that loves us off guard.

i am speaking as a man, and i understand our psychology, so here's the help you need.

1)Because of how we are shaped, we find it very to ask for help, especially from our lovers, except in extreme cases. Call it pride, call it ego...call it whatever, it's our make up and we have no apology for that, and until we find a solution, we tend to withdraw from our environment and the people around us and be ALONE. However, at this point, once you start sensing that we are drifting away from you (will discuss signs of drifting away in other articles), the best thing to do is to allow us go and probably say words like "You know I love you and I'll always be here for you" [with a little kiss on the forehead - don't do more than that, and make sure you smell extremely nice when you do this...use your most expensive perfume]. Chances are he will request for an "encore" after doing this the third time (one per day)

2)DO NOT buy him gifts during these times, and try as much as possible to reduce your call rate (odd right?) I know you love him, but trust me, this will help so much - he will be the one to call you and talk it out.

3)Don't procure solutions when he's talking and please try as much as possible to understand every statement he makes. If you don't understand very well, don't ever EVER EVER procure a solution, it's better to ask him (in the nicest of ways) to repeat himself, than for you to give him a nasty solution.

4)If for any reason he gets argumentative, don't talk, find a way into his arms and give him a kiss of life...then repeat steps 1 and 2 again...



we will talk about this again some more in my next post.

8 Impossibilities for a GUY

Now, don't laugh at me here, I just want to give you a sneak peek into an average guys love life; 1)I'm not sure if it is possible for a guy not to cheat "emotionally" 2) It's not possible for a guy to enjoy a nagging lady; 3)It's not really possible for a guy to be "ALL PLAIN" with his spouse; 4) It's not really easy for a guy not to have an ulterior motive with a female best-friend - if he's not nurturing it, it would've crossed his mind before. 5) Emotional affairs is easier for a guy 6) It's not possible for a guy not to feel validated when one or more ladies trip for him; 7)HE must be guilty of one of these three in his lifetime: Smoking, drinking, or have a flair for women 8)It is impossible for a guy not to look twice at a very beautiful lady and admire a lady's curvilinear structure. You can post more or disagree... it's all about how you see it though!

What Guys Want!

I am always amazed at how much we guys like to always hang around opposite sex...well it's not a new thing. The truth is that we [consciously or unconsciously]believe that the higher the "class" of a lady we hang out with, the more point we get to score amongst our peers, thus we always want to go for ladies of higher class... THIS LEADS TO SO MANY PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEMS IN OUR HEADS..... ...INCLUDING HOW WE RELATE TO OUR "SPECIAL ONE" You see, naturally, we are hunters, and we enjoy chasing after "big games" but in this case, we often forget that the "big games" are human and are also not perfect; Thus, after we have scored "THE POINT" with a GAME, we hunger and thirst for someone bigger, better, more classy and wilder.... The truth is that in our heart of heart, we know the sane ladies and we know those who are worth the extra effort to get, but somehow, a larger percentage of us still strays away! So, the question that plagues our PRISTINE and CAREFULLY CARVED OPPOSITE SEX is WHAT DOES THESE GUYS WANT? Well, for starters, WE WANT TO BE FREE!!! YES TO BE FREE!!! Free to express our wildness without being cautious of the presence of our opposite sex! Yes! We don't want to express ourselves to you only for you to use it against us. This explains why guys find it easier to have EMOTIONAL AFFAIRS than a real affair! Give a guy a sense of this freedom, and you will be surprised at how much he will appreciate and always come back to you. More to come later!!!

Creativity: guys are open to something new

Have you ever wondered what makes guys get tired of ladies too soon? I mean you understand that guys are synonymous to not being satisfied with a single lady, but why that is, you don’t know. Well the answer is simple; guys love new things!
A lot of ladies in present times tend to get complacent once they get a guy who loves them. They become too soft and rigid and are not willing to change. They erroneously believe that they can keep appearing the way they do every day because to them, love is a thing of the heart not about looks -which might be right to some extent. This belief thus makes them to relent, forgetting that there is a lustful Lucy and a charming Chantel out there who knows how to sweep guys off their feet and make them run after her all because of her skill set and physical endowment.
One truth all ladies need to know is that guys don’t see love the way ladies do. Guys are constantly moved by what they see, which then stirs up their feelings for passion, but ladies are moved by what they hear. This major difference is what makes relationships go haywire. The best way to get your guy to stick with you is to constantly be creative about yourself and your inner fortitude.
There are several ways of keeping a guy around, but the most effective method is to keep playing on his curiosity. It really won’t hurt if you can constantly transform yourself (as a lady) to what he sees in the movie. I understand the fact that you want him to love you for who you are, but the truth is it takes a really mature guy to do so – even matured men still crave for creativity on a lady’s part.
My definition of creativity is not limited to [outward] looks, but it spans across mental and intellectual capital, sense of fun, care, respect, and true love. Once a guy sees all these, I can give you a 70% guarantee that he’ll always be yours, no matter what. A guy always remembers a good source.
Enjoy!

An Intro

I’ve always seen ladies in dilemma of trying to understand what guys are really about. I’ve had my fair share of dating ladies and I must confess, it is always leading to a funny experience because ladies find it hard to understand the anatomy of guys.
This site is for ladies who are longing to understand what guys are about. Ladies who have, at one time, struggle (or are struggling) to keep their relationship in the balance, all because they really don’t understand a man's perspective towards relationship. All I will be doing is to try to elaborate on what guys feel and how we think and see life.
Ladies first need to understand that guys are moved by what they see and are driven by guts and instincts. A guy is a natural hunter and will by no means have time for the luxury of cuddling and petting. Contrary to what ladies believe, a guy hates it when a lady tends to act as his mum and wants to pamper him. Guys are naturally egoistical and will stop at nothing to grow angry if they sense any hurt in their ego – which is what most ladies do.
The list goes on and on, but I promise you that I’ll do my best to give you tips about how to handle a guy and make him wish you will never leave him alone.
Enjoy!